Becoming a teenager

 Hey, I am Manya Arora, a 15 years old girl who is currently completing her 10th standard and having an obsession with writing and trying to change the world by telling some little realities that we usually face in our day-to-day life.

Becoming a teenager

So becoming a teenager is the starting of realising the responsible side in our own self. We usually experience day to day problems, and we just have a feeling that our life is kind of worse. We experience heartbreaks, family pressure even though we do experience peer pressure. Each and every person has their own childhood memories and at a time we do have a feeling that childhood memories and those days were the best. As we enter teenage we do feel a change in ourselves, our way of expressing and seeing the world does change. We experience many changes in ourselves because of the responsibilities which we have to deal with and at a certain stage, we find that we are losing ourselves and we are becoming something which the world wants us to be. We start changing what we really like just so that we could show our high standards. Standard is the thing we start living for.

Losing your own self just to win the world is what we do. But the world is not a game to be played it's a place to be experienced and to be lived in. You could never ever satisfy the needs of any single person so stop changing yourself for others because no one is ever gonna appreciate you for what you did for them, they'll just show the things you were not able to do for them. The one's who really do love you will accept the real you. Stop degrading yourself because you are your own kind and start accepting yourself that's how the world will start accepting you. Beauty is not when you post pics on Instagram and get comments, beauty is when you start showing your real vibe to others.

Stop living for standards and start enjoying this life because this life is a short journey that will end soon and in the end, memories are more mesmerising than fame and standards. 

We go through many phases of life and at a point, we have a thinking that everyone will leave and that being introverted is the best solution to each and every problem but that's not the solution, indeed, people leave not because you did something wrong but because they have to. Don't ever be dependent on anyone because no one is permanent. Heartbreaks usually happen because we overtrust them. Just don't ever let any person know you deep down.

Just stop living for the world and start living for your own self. Start praising yourself for what you do and start loving yourself, the way you really are. Don't expect people to do that because they'll just show you your negative side, but you have a positive side. Don't ever let any person control you because you have your own ways to express what you feel. Stop hiding your feelings from the world and be straightforward, what you feel, what you wanna say just say it out loud because saying it out is better than keeping it inside and killing yourself each and every day. Just love this life, I know we do face problems and come under many pressures but that doesn't mean that our life is worse. Life is really very beautiful if seen with your own perspective, not from the world's perspective. So just accept yourself and show the real you that's how the world will accept your real side and stop pushing yourself through problems just learn to face them.

Be happy and enjoy this life because you deserve much more and yes you all really do.

Hope you guys like this one, I'll upload my next blog soon..!!