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It's not your fault.!

 Hey, I am Manya Arora, a 15 years old girl who is currently completing her 10th standard and having an obsession with writing and trying to change the world by telling some little realities that we usually face in our day-to-day life.

Hope you all are doing well so here's my new blog.

It's not your Fault.!

The world is not always a good place. Many people are wearing a fake mask on their face and every time this mask is removed, it just gives us a reality to hate ourselves. Realities are hard to accept but on the other hand, they are important to accept. People are gonna enter your life, use you and then they'll leave just like you were nothing for them. Not everyone is loyal and not everyone truly loves but everything just happens for a reason. We usually start blaming ourselves for what life is doing with us and a stage comes where we feel depressed just because of blaming ourselves each and every day.

But what you'll get after crying for someone who doesn't even bother to ask you that you are okay or not..??

                       Let me tell you'll get nothing but you'll make yourself weak and you'll lose yourself. Life makes us tough day by day by showing us what this world really is. Accepting these realities and moving on is what life teaches us.

So I come across many people who say that they are not able to move on just because they have a feeling that the other person will come back. Just learn one thing, the person who can leave you at your worst just for once can leave you again at any step of your life, maybe at that step when you need them the most

We do have some people which are really very close to our hearts and the time when these close people start lying that's the feeling which just tears you apart. You start feeling empty. You start blaming yourself that maybe you are not a friend or you did something wrong or are not that important for them, but it's not your fault. You gave your best. Stop blaming yourself for the things you have not done and start appreciating yourself for what you do.

I know we all do have flaws. But you all are perfect for yourself because you all faced hard conditions of life, you all faced that dark side of life, you all faced many realities of life but you all were able to handle yourself and you all are alive living your best. So you all are perfect for yourself. Stop comparing yourself with others you are your own kind.

The world will never stop blaming you but that doesn't mean it's your fault.

We all do mistakes and every time we learn from our mistakes and that's what life is start learning what your dark side wants to teach you because everything happens not for a reason but because it has to happen. You can never always get what you want to let all that go and start appreciating yourself for the support you gave to your own self. Be proud of who you are.

Dark phases will come because that's a part of our life but if you'll blame yourself then how are you gonna fight with that phase..?

So don't lose hope, don't lose faith you all can face this. Just smile and never let your smile die.

And in the end, you all are perfect.



Hope you guys like this one I'll upload my next blog soon.!

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