It's not easy..

 Hey, I am Manya Arora, a 15 years old girl who is currently completing her 10th standard and having an obsession with writing and trying to change the world by telling some little realities that we usually face in our day-to-day life.

Hope you all are doing well so here's my new blog..!

It's not easy...

This world would never let you live peacefully. I know I am a girl, I know I have some limitations to be maintained, I know I am judged sometimes 'cause I wear short clothes, I know being in a relationship would make me characterless for the society, I know I am not allowed to use abusive language and after all, this what we being girls want which is love and respect. It's not easy to be a woman, the pain which women have to suffer can never be described in words. 

Then also whenever a rape case takes place the society would never blame those bastards for that but they do blame the women for going outside or wearing short clothes. Like do you guys even realise an 8 months old baby girl being raped, like such a small life who has just started living was treated so badly and now can you blame an 8 months old baby girl for this..?? I seriously don't understand how can people just shut off their humanity.

Our country literally experiences 88 rape cases per day and then also women are blamed. I seriously don't understand the mentality which today's generation is going through. A woman who is going through this rape stuff is literally mentally abused because society thinks that males can never be blamed.

It's not easy to be a woman, it's not easy to suffer things quietly. I usually come across many people who abort their babies just because they don't want a girl child. How can you just kill that little one and being a girl is not a punishment, it's a blessing. People think that having a baby girl would just create a burden in their lives. Having a daughter is not a burden it's a blessing because you have someone with you who could just wipe your tears and hug you at your worst.

Stop doing these inhuman activities. Men and women both are equal just the difference is society never accepts that.

"Rape is the only crime in which the victim becomes the accused" and that's one of the realities of today's generation. I understand we are living in a modern generation but the type of mentality we are having doesn't suit this generation. The victim who has fucking suffered this stuff is blamed repeatedly and that's the reason suicide cases take place because those women find it so hard to live, they are so tired of this society's mess that they make the decision to end their lives.

Men think that they have control over any female's body then let me tell you all that, A daughter is her father's respect and her mother's identity, you are no one to judge her, characterise her or sexually abuse her. Do think about your sisters who are waiting for you at home because they are also girls and they do live in the same society. 

Whenever there is a rape case we all feel bad, we all do feel sorry for that one, we all do light candles but after some days everything's normal like nothing ever happened. The rules which the government made never implements them and that's what our Indian economy is.

So just stop blaming girls for this rape stuff because it's not their fault. It's not easy to be a girl/woman. It's fucking hard to suffer that pain and to accept the limits given by society. Just use your humanity because that's the only thing that could change this society's mentality. Stop aborting girls because they do have the right to live, they have the right to be loved and see this world and in the end,, don't ever think that raping a girl would make you powerful because it would make you the biggest coward and you can't decline that.

I hope you guys like this one and do share this as much as you can because this rape stuff needs to end. Do tell me your reviews in the comment section..!!