Moving On

  Hey, I am Manya Arora, a 15 years old girl who is currently completing her 10th standard and having an obsession with writing and trying to change the world by telling some little realities that we usually face in our day-to-day life.

Hope you all are doing well so here's my new blog..!

  Moving On..!

The imaginary world is the best thing one could ever be in. Imagining what the world can be can never change what the world really is. Real-world is really very different from your imaginary world.

Once we just get attached to a person we start adjusting ourselves to their needs. Just to save that bond we sometimes lose ourselves. But the practical world asks for more. The time when that one person leaves we just feel like we had a great loss. Life seems to be incomplete like something is missing. The person with whom we had a daily conversation just disappears and we start finding fault in ourselves that maybe we don't deserve love, that maybe we don't deserve this life. Smiling in front of everyone and then crying alone is what life becomes. We just lose that smile and those positive vibes in ourselves. Talking about depressive things becomes one of our hobbies. Telling everyone that you are okay but things do kill you from inside, that's what your personality becomes. Losing belief in god is also a little part of this breakdown. All those memories with that one person make you cry every single day. That's what we all experience when we go through a breakdown.

I come across many people who say that they are not able to move on. I accept that it's very easy to say someone to move on but on the other side it is really very tough for that one person to move on with what is killing them from inside. 

It may take months or it may take years but in the end, we all move on because life shows us that the person we left behind was not worth it for us and that we deserve someone better than that. Whatever life does is because life wants us to be strong, to bear these harsh realities of life and to learn to face them.

You'll observe many changes in yourself when you go through a breakdown and these changes are the lessons that you all learnt from that one breakdown. We just can't forget all those memories with that one person because whenever in life the same thing repeats with us we'll know how to handle that by remembering these lessons. That's the reason life makes us go through these harsh realities.

It's not easy to move on but on the other hand, it's not impossible to. We all deserve love, we all deserve care and life will surely bless us with that.

Zayn Malik once said "There comes a day when you realize turning the page is the best feeling in the world because you realise there is so much more to the book than the page you were stuck on" That's what happens, we are just stuck on one single page but life has much more to see and to experience. We can't move on until and unless we have that will inside ourselves. We'll be stuck on that one single page but you all need to know that you have the complete book so just stop focusing on a single page. 

Just a small example for you guys whenever we just go to buy any single thing we will never buy the first thing we see in the shop, we'll just try it out and we'll buy the best one. That's what life is we have to go through many phases and meet many people and then select the best one. Every time we just get to learn a lesson and a way to improve ourselves. 

So life is tough but it makes you strong so stop being stuck on a single incident and just see what more life is having for you, you all deserve and you all will get the best just don't lose hope..!

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