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I am Manya Arora a 15 years old girl who is currently completing her 10th standard and having an obsession with writing and who is trying to change the world by telling some little realities which we usually face in our day to day life.

                     


Hope you all are doing well, so here's my new blog.

So today I just wanna discuss a simple topic and that is insecurity. Many of us pass through a phase where we think that whatever the world is saying about us, that matters. Like I don't understand how can we just live up to other's opinions. Some years back I was at that stage of my life where I just made a decision to end my life just because I thought that I was not beautiful, that my skin wasn't appropriate and that I could never live a good life with this stuff. Thinking about this day and night I was so fucking depressed. Not attending the parties, being such an introverted person, I just lost my smile. After some months of this depression, I met some people who were specially-abled. That time I realised how beautiful my life really was.

Last night I just found this same little feeling of insecurity in my Instagram DMs. She was so insecure about herself just because some people said that you're not beautiful that doesn't mean that really you're not beautiful. Stop giving a damn because the world is never gonna stop talking bullshit about you.

Just answer one question, we usually come across many television and Bollywood actresses, they are so fucking beautiful but lemme confirm those actresses do get comments related to their beauty and their body because the world will never stop hating you. Just learn one thing no one knows you better than you know yourself. You all are beautiful, you all are worthful so just stop giving a damn to those 10-15 people who just can't stop hating you. This world is a big place and the level of hatred is even bigger. Stop focusing upon the world's opinion and see yourself in the mirror and appreciate yourself because you all have that beauty inside you that will surely reflect your outer look, but you just need to be proud of who you are and don't ever lose your self-confidence for a couple of people because that's one of the most expensive things you'll ever have.

Whatever you do, even if you wear short clothes you'll be judged by society so have that self-confidence in yourself because that's the only thing which will always remind you about your worth. Don't lose your smile for just a couple of people. Your worth can never be described.

So just smile and let the world bark cause you all are your own kind.

I hope you guys liked this blog..do tell me your reviews in the comment section. I'll upload my next blog soon. 


Comments

  1. Sehajkunwar9 ProductionsDecember 31, 2020 at 5:05 AM

    I really appreciate your words ☺️❤️

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  2. Pratham NagpalDecember 31, 2020 at 6:22 AM

    Awesome hai yrr �� ��

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  3. lala life of SMEEHAJanuary 7, 2021 at 4:32 AM

    BEST ONE !! Keep writing more !!

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  4. AnonymousJanuary 8, 2021 at 9:33 PM

    Your posts are awesome. Keep rocking Manya ☺

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  5. AnonymousJanuary 10, 2021 at 9:27 AM

    Great post, and your words are so true! We look to the world for compliments and for our confidence rather than being confident in ourselves a lot of the time. We can all work on this a bit!

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  6. jasJanuary 12, 2021 at 2:37 PM

    Love this.. 🤗
    Validation and conformity is something that we keep struggling with as human beings.. it's always helpful to be reminded of your innate value as a living being.

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