I'm Okay

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I am Manya Arora, a 15 years old girl who is currently completing her 10th standard and having an obsession with writing and trying to change the world by telling some little realities that we usually face in our day-to-day life. 

Hope you all are doing well, so here's my new blog.

             

                     

How many times in a day do we use this phrase, "I'm okay" just to let people know that we are totally fine. I don't know how you guys feel but I think trusting someone after your trust once being broken by someone is a hard job. We for sure develop trust issues after losing trust in that someone. It's not easy to let that someone leave with whom you once planned your "forever." People leave without giving actual reasons for the same.

We all must have realised that our first-ever worst experience is really very hard but then slowly and gradually we learn when and where to have trust and when and where to have expectations. Not always people lose in love, some lose their friends, those who made that same "staying forever" promises and some people experience both. We all surely have experienced that stage where we feel like everyone's gonna leave someday so it's better to accept it rather than expecting a magical scene to occur. At that time we all want that we could have a single person who could listen and totally understand us but we don't know whom to trust because once our trust was broken by that someone. We want to cry out so loud but we smile just to let others know that we are okay. 

According to me the worst stage of life is when a person loses his/her ability to love their own self. When they lose themselves just to find others. It sucks being alone sometimes. It sucks when your expectations are being ignored but life has to be harsh sometimes just to make you realize that it's life and it can not always be good and can not always work according to your expectations.

Ever felt that ghosts are better than humans..? I feel that every time because ghosts are never fake, they would listen to you for hours but they would never let you shatter. I know they are scary but they would never double-cross.

We all don't need any reason to live because we all are enough and that's true we all are damn enough. We all cried but we wiped our tears ourselves, life made us go through harsh conditions but we fought alone, we supported ourselves at our worst when people out there thought that we were okay. This means we are all strong enough. Just remember one thing you are your own best friend because no one can understand you more than you can understand yourself.

Stop making yourself realize about your past happenings, just be happy for what you have today. Let the one's leave who wanna leave because not everyone deserves such a pure soul like you. No one has a perfect life, everyone has surely lost that one person who promised that "forever" thing but it was just to let you know that " forever is just an illusion", nothing remains permanent, everything has to end someday. Stop telling yourself that you are depressed, just tell yourself that it's a bad phase but you are okay because there's nothing new in this. The one's who come have to leave and that's a universal fact that can never be ignored.

Just smile and let it go and believe me your one smile would let the world wonder..!

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