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Dear Parents

 Hey There..!

I am Manya Arora a 15 years old girl who is currently completing her 11th standard and having an obsession with writing and who is trying to change the world by telling some little realities which we usually face in our day to day life. 

Hey fam, I hope you all are doing good so I'm back here with another blog and this blog is really very close to my heart and I hope you guys will surely read it once.



                             





Dear Parents,

So first of all I know that you guys are much more experienced, you guys just want us to be happy and healthy, you just keep us secure each and every day and scold us over small topics just to make us realize that how hard this life really is and I really respect your emotions. But there is a lot more going inside us. We can never totally open up in front of you guys and we can not always share things that are mentally disturbing us. But that doesn't mean that we don't value you. You are really precious for us but this life makes us go through many tough and hard conditions where neither we can let this stuff inside us come out nor we can hug you and cry out loud. This world is really a bad place but we need to survive just to make you proud someday. We really love you but we can't love ourselves because of this day to day mental pressure. How can we tell you that the one we presented in front of you as our forever best friend was just a snake???? How can we tell you that the only person we loved just left without giving any reason for the same??? How can we tell you that we are not able to concentrate on our studies just because we feel so lonely??? How can we tell you that we suffer from anxiety daily but never show that up????

We all have entered a stage called "teenage" where we have to make a lot of decisions, have many choices but have to choose the best, where we have to go through breakdowns and mental pressures and have to know our responsibilities but then to we have to smile every single day just to let you guys know that we are okay. We really have trust issues. Sometimes you act strict and sometimes we make mistakes but that doesn't mean that we will stop loving you.

We know that we don't spend much time with you guys and we just live in a fake world of social media but that doesn't mean that you guys are not important to us. We just need a distraction from this practical world because it makes us mad and insecure about ourselves daily. Our own friends make us do things under peer pressure what to say next!

Hey mom, hey dad you guys are everything for us but we have stopped expressing our love because we are tired of losing people. We are tired of begging in front of our loved ones just to make them stay. No one here really means their "forever." But we really need you guys. These breakdowns have really made us rude at times but then too we need you guys to make us feel secure and special again. We know that we are 16 years old now but for once we need you to treat us the way you treated us before when we were small because we have lost ourselves just to find some fake people. We are totally lost and we want you to show us the bright path again. We just want this darkness in our life to fade away and our little smile to return back. But we'll never tell you guys that we need you because we are a teenager now and we have to act mature. But we really love you and please don't ever feel that we don't value you. You are a lot more than for us than you think. We hope we could tell you this someday....!

This is what we all feel and we all know that we can never hate our parents no matter they scold us or they make us go through restrictions. 

And in the end, I just wanna say I love you mom dad and thanks for always being there for me.

Hope you guys like one. Do tell me your reviews in the comment section.



Comments

  1. Sehajkunwar9 ProductionsApril 26, 2021 at 12:04 AM

    I'm crying 😭😭

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  2. ShivamApril 26, 2021 at 12:09 AM

    It was so good manya 🥺♥️♥️👌🏻

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  3. Taanvi AroraApril 26, 2021 at 12:42 AM

    You rocked it. You picked the exact words which we can't express.loved it manya. It was really really gud..

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  4. Dhruv vermaApril 26, 2021 at 2:54 AM

    🔥

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  5. lala life of SMEEHAApril 26, 2021 at 9:34 AM

    You are killing it x

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  6. jasApril 26, 2021 at 10:45 PM

    Great article.. It never hurts to tell parents that you love them. They're the only ones who will keep doing it unconditionally and will always cherish it.

    Parents might be strict now, but they'll also be there to protect you from the world and help you make better choices. You don't have to be alone under this pressure of the world. We've all been through similar things, through heartbreak, backstabs, feeling of loneliness, the feeling of a clock ticking down on your career... and we can relate with your feelings :)

    Parents just have a different perspective because the time and conditions when they were experiencing these emotions were different, so they learned to handle them in a different way. Try to trust them with your feelings, and it will be rewarded with love and advice.

    Yours is the final decision. You make your own mistakes.. Like we all do :)

    Rest assured, we'll be here for support if u ever need it getting back up.

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  7. Manya AroraApril 27, 2021 at 6:19 AM

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