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I am Manya Arora, a 15 years old girl who is currently completing her 11th standard and is obsessed with writing and trying to change the world by telling some little realities that we usually face in our day-to-day life. 

Hey fam, I hope that you all are doing good. So here I'm back again with another blog and I hope you all will read it once. So let's start with it.



Hey Overthinkers,

I know you are not able to sleep at night. Everything appears dark after 12am. It is hard for you to let someone enter your life and to trust them while having trust issues. Every second having that feeling that you're gonna lose your favourite person or any person whom you are attached to. You feel scared to trust someone or get attached to any person just because you feel that they'll leave you and you'll end up alone someday. I know how this actually feels. I know how hard it is when your heart feels so heavy and you wanna cry it all out but you don't know that you should trust someone again or not. We all go through many phases but this phase sucks the most and I accept that but do you guys even realize that whatever life makes us go through it just brings an upgraded version of us. I'm not saying that it is easy but it is important. It is important to have bad days and bad phases too because until and unless you don't have them you won't even realize that what real life is about. The bad phase brings the worst version of you to show you that you can tolerate that phase and that you are strong and capable of handling things. Life would just test your strength and you have to be patient because your anger or tears won't end that bad phase.

Listen, we all go through breakdowns but that doesn't mean that love does not exist. Love does exist, trust me it really does. Whenever we go through these breakdowns we feel that it's all our fault because we believed in love but it's not our fault. A wrong person doesn't mean that love is erroneous. Love is a pure feeling which can never be described in words but can be felt to the fullest. Ever hugged your mother? Ever had a fight with your brother? Ever saw your father working so hard just to fulfil your desideratum? This is love and it exists. If your parents can, your siblings can then the right person will also do. Just wait for that right time and you'll have the right person. 

When we go to school we never start solving trigonometric problems but we start slowly and then learn and grab new things, we score good marks at times but we do score less marks sometimes and finally one day we graduate. That's what life is. You start up, you fall down, you learn to stand up and fight and then one day you finally get what you really deserve. Just be patient and let life do what it wants to do because patience is the only key to survive on this planet and trust me I'm not wrong on this point. Stop worrying about what will happen tomorrow, just live the moment you really are in because no one knows that you'll have this moment the next day or not. You'll all be okay. I'm not saying that bad phases won't come they will come no matter how old are you or where you live but they will come and all you can do is be patient. We have to be patient while choosing a beautiful dress for the party, we have to be patient for learning things in school, we can't say that we wanna be graduated without even completing high school. In the same way, we have to be patient with life and life will just make you capable and mature and you have to be one if you wanna survive in this toxic world. That's what life is all about the moment you are patient, you are capable and you'll pass that phase.

I can't stop you from overthinking because that is one human emotion but I can tell you how to fight with that and that's all about how patient you are.

And yes love does exist and don't ever lose hope because your hope is your most powerful weapon. This is a small journey and don't spoil it by planning your forever just enjoy it by living up till whenever because in the end, it's just you alone waiting for your loved ones to burn your body in ashes. 

Hope you all like this one. Do tell me your reviews in the comment section and thank you so much for reading it once and I hope it made you smile. Have a good day.




                    

                                  


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