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You deserve a Second Chance.

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I am Manya Arora, a 15 years old girl who is currently completing her 11th standard and is obsessed with writing and trying to change the world by telling some little realities that we usually face in our day-to-day life. 

Hey fam, I hope that you all are doing good. So here I'm back again with another blog and I hope you all will read it once. So let's start with it.



Hello people,

So today's topic is really very sensitive but is really very important to be discussed. As I mentioned before in my blogs, we all go through phases, but some phases give us permanent damage. That damage is the fear, the fear of facing that pain, that breakdown again. At times, we give importance to one person more than we give to ourselves, which leads to addiction. We are addicted to that person completely and we can't find happiness in other things. It can be friendship but it can be more than friendship too sometimes. But when that one person leaves we just enter into a complete phase of misery. We find ourselves alone, dead and depressed. Maybe music becomes our best friend or maybe our diary because we are so afraid to let anyone in and face that pain again. That's the time when we are unable to give time to our parents too and I completely accept that no one gives a fuck about how we feel at that time. It's us alone finding another reason to live knowing that we didn't even move on from that one single phase. It appears really dark at that time. I know that we can't just shut off our humanity and feel nothing but we can tell ourselves that it was just a bad phase. 

Listen, you all deserve to be loved, to be cared and to be happy. Thinking that hope sucks and having no hope will be better would be your biggest mistake and I'm not wrong on that part. You all need one person in your life with whom you can spend your life till whenever because forever never existed. I know that the last phase was really painful and you don't wanna trust someone again but you can't run away from your destiny. The far you go the more your destiny comes for you. Just close your eyes and say to yourself that you are worthy, that you deserve happiness no matter how toxic the world really is but you deserve happiness because you really do. You all deserve a second chance. Nothing is easy in this big world, not even death. I'm not saying that trust the very first person you meet, I'm just saying if a person really owes your trust then do give yourself a chance because it's impossible to live without hope. Hope sucks but hope is the only reason we have to live this life. Stop saying to yourself that you are a problem or maybe you don't deserve things because every person does. We do not always win at times but that doesn't mean that we stop trying. We try and try and then one day have that success. If that's what we do in a game then how can we forget that life is also a game where we need to learn from the past and move on, where we need to accept the present and where we need to work hard for a bright future. We don't know when we gonna die so just try to spend each and every day on this planet by giving yourself chances, a chance to be happy again, a chance to play that game again which you lost once, a chance to overcome your fear which you have deep inside, a chance to live this life to the fullest without having any regrets. 

It's just a small game of life so live it up rather than pushing yourself through the regret zone. You all deserve a second chance and I'm repeating this thing again and again. Just let go of that phase I know it'll remain inside you till the end because that was a painful phase but that phase should not stop you from giving yourself a second chance to be loved again. Be proud of yourself because you faced that phase when people out there thought that you were okay. You all are really very strong just the thing is you need to accept that and the time you accept it then the things won't hurt you much and life would be back to normal again. 


Hope you all like this one. Do tell me your reviews in the comment section and thank you so much for reading it once and I hope it made you smile. Have a good day.



                              



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