Those were the days..!

 Hey There...

I am Manya Arora, a 15 years old girl who is currently completing her 11th standard and is obsessed with writing and trying to change the world by telling some little realities that we usually face in our day-to-day life. 

Hey fam, I hope that you all are doing good. So here I'm back again with another blog and I hope you all will read it once.

Today I'm not gonna come up with a negative issue and then tell some positive ways to handle it or solve it but today I wanna have a discussion. So, many of us including me do think that life was much much better there centuries ago, I mean it was better when relations were not made on social media when parents actually had time for their children rather than pampering them, when loyalty wasn't expensive and when life was practical. I do think that social media is fake because all that we see is not always true, it's just we try to adapt those things, we run after having followers and to have a so-called standard in our group. But I don't think that the number of followers you have on your social media will define your character or the real you.

People who don't even know the meaning of love go through relationships, show their loyalty, and expect their love to be respected. I don't think that you people are wrong, but the generation you live in is wrong for these kinds of pure souls. Today we all see families being drifted apart, real brother fighting with each other just for the sake of money. It's like wow "money" is much important than your own brother? But I think that's what the 21st century is all about. Yes, we are upgrading, things are developing around, evolution is happening and technology is what we live for but that's not what we humans were really made for. I remember the poems we used to read about unity in school, I remember the quote "sharing is caring" we used to learn in school, I remember those small pinky promises we used to do in school and had the guts to mean them, we all respected our relations, we all loved the ones who made us happy or made us feel special. But that was when we were small. Now things and people are taken just for granted or you can say time pass. Why so? Do you really think being toxic is good? But I don't think so because your toxicity can make someone hate "love" badly. When we were small, the only difference we had was that we used to cry for toys and now being a teenager we cry for people and stupid insecurities. I don't think so that years ago we used to cry about our skin not being appropriate. Then why now this matters? Don't say me because that girl looked so beautiful on Instagram or that guy had a perfect jawline on Instagram. Have you really seen them in real life? I don't think so then how can you let this fake world of social media disturb your practical life? I mean how? 

Things will be things, phases will be phases and life will be life no matter what just have that kinda self-confidence in yourself or else the world's gonna eat you up and I'm literally not kidding on this part. Whatever you do today, whatever people will do tomorrow, whatever happens, but remember one thing, in the end, it's only "you" so keep yourself as your first priority rather than crying at times thinking that you aren't perfect. Life needs time for everything. You can't grow up in seconds it requires a lot many years. So wait for the right person because they will accept the real you and you will be perfect for them. Trust me not ugly, not skinny, not fat but perfect. 

Just sit today and think do you really wanna believe and rely on this fake world of social media where you don't even know that the person with whom you are chatting will be there tomorrow or not, where you see people being happy in a relationship but you are unknown with the fact that it's just a picture or a video not their relationship going live. Following what you see on social media would just end up making you live in misery. Stop posting everything on social media not because people love to ruin things but because your happiness is something people can't resist seeing because this isn't the 17th century where people loved to make relations and value them but this is the 21st century where people don't even consider their parents as a priority. It's really despairing to say that but that's true and we need to accept that.

We can't go back to that time but we can improve our lifestyle, not by following social media but by considering it just as a time pass and not taking things seriously which you see there. Start loving this practical life because years after you'll just have a small world with your loved ones and those loved ones would be limited then why not today? It just requires a single step and that is we need to stop running after our expectations because nothing is more toxic than our own expectations and the day you'll make out of this mess that day things will stop haunting you.

Hope you all like this one. Do tell me your reviews in the comment section and thank you so much for reading it once and I hope it made you smile. Have a good day.