Society isn't what we live for!

 Hey There...

I am Manya Arora, a 16 years old brown girl who is currently completing her 11th standard and is obsessed with writing and trying to change the world by telling some little realities that we usually face in our day-to-day lives. 

Hey fam, I hope that you all are doing good. So here I am back again with another blog and I hope you all will read it once.

"Personal life" is something we all being humans need. No one would like it if a person interferes in their own personal matters. I wish this society was as simple as it was for me to write this all up here. From starting we are said to maintain our limits. Just the difference is that boys and girls both have different limits. Girls are said to stay in and hold the respect of their families. Basically, that respect is somehow like they have to stay in a distance with boys, their social media should be controlled by their parents, even though they should clothe as per society think is relevant. Whereas boys have a limit to control what they are feeling. They aren't allowed to cry because if they did then people around them will be like "why are you crying like a girl", "aren't you brave enough?", "you are a coward" and somewhat like that. And every single day they hide things inside them and act tough because they aren't allowed to cry. 

This society could make anyone furious. It's all because parents think that if their children will cross that given limit then" what will the relatives think about them." This relative thing actually sucks. People don't know what's happening in their life but they do wanna know what's going in other's life. 

We being teenagers of 21st century have to face all this bilge in hush because if we said something inappropriate then "what will the relatives think about us?", "they will call us misleared" This damn thing, "what will the relatives think about us" is never-ending but needs to come to an end because we need a life free of toxicity and filled with independence which we deserve. 

This society will always have another excuse to let you down because people here aren't good enough when it comes to seeing someone happy or seeing someone fortunate. It's hard to believe that there was a time when people used to feel blessed when relatives or any other friend gave a visit to their place. 

Time heals, time tell you the quality of genuineness and even though it gives you the power of acceptance but time won't ever wait for you to complete that one chapter of your life happily. I don't care who will get offended after reading this but people will think the way they want no matter what you do. Even if you'll be standing somewhere on the top of the world being successful at a point then too they'll have that hatred for you in their heart because making someone genuinely happy is not what every person can do. 

Enjoying your vibe doesn't mean that you are mad, loving yourself doesn't mean that you are self-obsessed. Similarly crying out loud doesn't mean that you're a cry baby. Crying is just an emotion, it doesn't mean that you aren't brave enough to handle things. Life is a bit unfair at times and letting that heaviness inside yourself come out isn't a bad thing. And for girls, yes you hold your family's respect but limits are to be followed not restrictions and both of them differ a lot.

Society will always be in your way just let go of it and let in of positive energy in yourself that's gonna let you have a life which you aspire to live in. 

I really hope that you guys liked this one. Thank you so much for reading it once, I really hope it made you smile. Have a good day ahead.