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I am Manya Arora, a 16 years old brown girl who is currently completing her 11th standard and is obsessed with writing and trying to change the world by telling some little realities that we usually face in our day-to-day lives. 

Hey fam, I hope that you all are doing good. So here I am back again with another blog and I hope you all will read it once.



What is success? being a rich person and having 10-15 cars at your place isn't a success. It's being fortunate, not successful. Success doesn't always mean being moneyed. Success is something which you have the day you find yourself improving and being a better version of yourself. We all have dreams, some people crave to find an easy way to chase that dream and some go for the complicated one but choosing the complicated path will always lead you to success. I am not saying that it is easy but I am saying that it will be worth it. Working on yourself is far better than working on other people because after some years moving to another city and pursuing what you always wanted to be is much more soothing than telling people about your past and just attaining sympathy. Everything is important, love life, that 10 years of friendship and even those fictional characters you wish you could be someday but nothing is more important than yourself. You'll find many people who will say that you are "ugly", who will leave you at your worst and who will talk crap about you but that is just to distract you from knowing what you actually are and what you all can do. This world is a beautiful place but just tell me do you love all the subjects that you are studying in your class? I know the answer is no but for that one subject or maybe two subjects will you call your school a toxic place? I don't think so, so why just because of some stupid people we say that this world is filled with toxicity. This world is a really beautiful place but you need to explore that. To be successful you will need to be you and the real you. The universe rewards you if you are doing good but if you repeat those mistakes again and again then the cycle goes on and it won't stop until and unless you'll find the reason that why all this is happening. Sitting at a place and thinking about what's gonna happen next would give you nothing. You should be prepared with what you need to do next because this life is so uncertain, you don't know the very next moment what's gonna happen, so stop waiting for life to do something good for you because life will do what it wants to do but what you wanna do with your life it's all over you. You wanna waste time on stupid relationships and friendships then that's your own choice but if you want to do something that you'll be proud of someday then you need to get up and work hard. 


Being successful isn't being rich and I repeat that again. Being successful is being proud of what you did because we can never be satisfied totally but at least we can be proud of how we faced things and how we moved on just for a life we always wanted to have. It's your life and your decisions are gonna be implemented. It's only you who stops you and only you who could make you something you dream of. So start loving yourself and the very first step of success is to love your real self as that is foremost.

For being successful you don't need money. Money is the result of your hard work but the main success is your decision and efforts to work hard and I hope that I made that difference clear. 


I hope that you all liked my blog. Have a good day ahead:)




                            



                      

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  2. I am amazed by your writing skills and thoughts and it’s tough to believe that even being 16 you can write and express them so beautifully loved it and keep writing more and more❤️waiting for more blogs…

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  3. I loved the way you expressed things so beautifully and your blogs are daily motivation for us. Hope to see another blog soon...

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  4. You are so talented oh my god!!!

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  5. such a great write up <3
    i loveeee it smm <333

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  6. The level of flair you have is something which needs to be appreciated. Read many of your blogs and they left me nonplus. You go girl, I appreciate the power you show in your words. Keep writing and spreading smiles.

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